Thursday, January 28, 2010

Are our kids safe at school?

A few weeks ago I received an email in my professional capacity, inviting me to attend a Safe Schools Community Forum, and today I attended.

Never did I intend to learn so much, nor did I intend to cry, but that is exactly what happened.

Please read the article below, and find out what we can do to help the Georgia Department of Education pass a rule that all districts must regulate the restraint and seclusion of OUR KIDS. (Can you believe that our schools DO NOT REGULATE or keep records when our kids are handcuffed, tied down, bound up, etc. nor when they are locked in a room alone for hours upon hours?? And, can you believe that the schools don't even have to notify parents before OR after it happens???)

Children forced into cell-like school seclusion rooms


By Ashley Fantz
CNN

MURRAYVILLE, Georgia (CNN) -- A few weeks before 13-year-old Jonathan King killed himself, he told his parents that his teachers had put him in "time-out."

The room where Jonathan King hanged himself is shown after his death. It is no longer used, a school official said.

The room where Jonathan King hanged himself is shown after his death. It is no longer used, a school official said.

"We thought that meant go sit in the corner and be quiet for a few minutes," Tina King said, tears washing her face as she remembered the child she called "our baby ... a good kid."

But time-out in the boy's north Georgia special education school was spent in something akin to a prison cell -- a concrete room latched from the outside, its tiny window obscured by a piece of paper.

Called a seclusion room, it's where in November 2004, Jonathan hanged himself with a cord a teacher gave him to hold up his pants. Video Watch Jonathan's parents on their son's death »

An attorney representing the school has denied any wrongdoing.

Seclusion rooms, sometimes called time-out rooms, are used across the nation, generally for special needs children. Critics say that along with the death of Jonathan, many mentally disabled and autistic children have been injured or traumatized.

Few states have laws on using seclusion rooms, though 24 states have written guidelines, according to a 2007 study conducted by a Clemson University researcher.

Texas, which was included in that study, has stopped using seclusion and restraint. Georgia has just begun to draft guidelines, four years after Jonathan's death.

Based on conversations with officials in 22 states with written guidelines, seclusion is intended as a last resort when other attempts to calm a child have failed or when a student is hurting himself or others.

Michigan requires that a child held in seclusion have constant supervision from an instructor trained specifically in special education, and that confinement not exceed 15 minutes.

Connecticut education spokesman Tom Murphy said "time-out rooms" were used sparingly and were "usually small rooms with padding on the walls."

Only Vermont tracks how many children are kept in seclusion from year to year, though two other states, Minnesota and New Mexico, say they have been using the rooms less frequently in recent years.

Dr. Veronica Garcia, New Mexico's education secretary, said her state had found more sophisticated and better ways to solve behavior problems. Garcia, whose brother is autistic, said, "The idea of confining a child in a room repeatedly and as punishment, that's an ethics violation I would never tolerate."

But researchers say that the rooms, in some cases, are being misused and that children are suffering.

Public schools in the United States are now educating more than half a million more students with disabilities than they did a decade ago, according to the National Education Association.

"Teachers aren't trained to handle that," said Dr. Roger Pierangelo, executive director of the National Association of Special Education Teachers.

"When you have an out-of-control student threatening your class -- it's not right and it can be very damaging -- but seclusion is used as a 'quick fix' in many cases."

Former Rhode Island special education superintendent Leslie Ryan told CNN that she thought she was helping a disabled fifth-grader by keeping him in a "chill room" in the basement of a public elementary school that was later deemed a fire hazard.

"All I know is I tried to help this boy, and I had very few options," Ryan said. After the public learned of the room, she resigned from her post with the department but remains with the school.

School records do not indicate why Jonathan King was repeatedly confined to the concrete room or what, if any, positive outcome was expected.

His parents say they don't recognize the boy described in records as one who liked to kick and punch his classmates. They have launched a wrongful death lawsuit against the school -- the Alpine Program in Gainesville -- which has denied any wrongdoing. A Georgia judge is expected to rule soon on whether the case can be brought before a jury.

Jonathan's parents say the boy had been diagnosed since kindergarten with severe depression and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder. But his father remembers him as a boy who was happy when he sang in the church choir.

"He was a hugger, liked to go fishing with me and run after me saying, 'Daddy, when are we going to the lake?' " Don King said.

King said that he wanted to know if there were similar situations in other schools and that critics of seclusion rooms fear there could be.

"Jonathan's case is the worst of the worst, but it should be a warning. It's reasonable to think that it could happen in all the other schools that use seclusion on disabled children -- largely because the use of seclusion goes so unchecked," said Jane Hudson, an attorney with the National Disability Rights Network.

"This is one of those most unregulated, unresearched areas I've come across," said Joseph Ryan, a Clemson University special education researcher who has worked in schools for disabled kids and co-authored a study on the use of seclusion.

"You have very little oversight in schools of these rooms -- first because the general public doesn't really even know they exist," he said.

There is no national database tracking seclusion incidents in schools, though many have been described in media reports, lawsuits, disability advocacy groups' investigations and on blogs catering to parents who say their child had been held in seclusion.

Disability Rights California, a federally funded watchdog group, found that teachers dragged children into seclusion rooms they could not leave. In one case, they found a retarded 8-year-old had been locked alone in a seclusion room in a northeast California elementary school for at least 31 days in a year.

"What we found outrageous was that we went to the schools and asked to see the rooms and were denied," said Leslie Morrison, a psychiatric nurse and attorney who led the 2007 investigation that substantiated at least six cases of abuse involving seclusion in public schools.

"It took a lot of fighting to eventually get in to see where these children were held."

CNN asked every school official interviewed if a reporter could visit a seclusion room and was denied every time.

In other instances of alleged abuse:

• A Tennessee mother alleged in a federal suit against the Learn Center in Clinton that her 51-pound 9-year-old autistic son was bruised when school instructors used their body weight on his legs and torso to hold him down before putting him in a "quiet room" for four hours. Principal Gary Houck of the Learn Center, which serves disabled children, said lawyers have advised him not to discuss the case.

• Eight-year-old Isabel Loeffler, who has autism, was held down by her teachers and confined in a storage closet where she pulled out her hair and wet her pants at her Dallas County, Iowa, elementary school. Last year, a judge found that the school had violated the girl's rights. "What we're talking about is trauma," said her father, Doug Loeffler. "She spent hours in wet clothes, crying to be let out." Waukee school district attorney Matt Novak told CNN that the school has denied any wrongdoing.

• A mentally retarded 14-year-old in Killeen, Texas, died from his teachers pressing on his chest in an effort to restrain him in 2001. Texas passed a law to limit both restraint and seclusion in schools because the two methods are often used together.

Federal law requires that schools develop behavioral plans for students with disabilities. These plans are supposed to explicitly explain behavior problems and methods the teacher is allowed to use to stop it, including using music to calm a child or allowing a student to take a break from schoolwork.

A behavioral plan for Jonathan King, provided to CNN by the Kings' attorney, shows that Jonathan was confined in the seclusion room on 15 separate days for infractions ranging from cursing and threatening other students to physically striking classmates.

Howard "Sandy" Addis, the director of the Pioneer education agency which oversees Alpine, said that the room where Jonathan died is no longer in use. Citing the ongoing litigation, he declined to answer questions about the King case but defended the use of seclusion for "an emergency safety situation."

The Alpine Program's attorney, Phil Hartley, said Jonathan's actions leading up to his suicide did not suggest the boy was "serious" about killing himself. Jonathan's actions were an "effort to get attention," Hartley said.

"This is a program designed for students with severe emotional disabilities and problems," he said. "It is a program which frequently deals with students who use various methods of getting attention, avoiding work."

A substitute employee placed in charge of watching the room on the day Jonathan died said in an affidavit that he had no training in the use of seclusion, and didn't know Jonathan had threatened suicide weeks earlier.

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The Kings say they would have removed their son from the school if they knew he was being held in seclusion, or that he had expressed a desire to hurt himself.

"We would have home schooled him or taken him to another psychologist," said Don King. "If we would have known, our boy would have never been in that room. He would still be alive."
(source: www.cnn.com/2008/US/12/17/seclusion.rooms/index.html?eref=rss_us)


THEY NEED OUR INPUT!!!
THEY ARE BEGGING FOR US TO HAVE OUR SAY SO THAT THE RULE CAN BE PASSED AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!
Please go to http://www.thegao.org/SafeSchools.htm for more information and to GET A SAMPLE LETTER TO FILL IN AND SEND TO THE OFFICIALS!!

Our kids deserve it.... let's fight for them!!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Sending Hope Cards to Haiti

Have you spent the last two weeks pining to do something for Haiti?

Have you wondered how to help with limited funds?

Please see this newsletter below from the Volunteer USA Foundation:
(Our kids can send cards to Haitian kids in hospitals and shelters!!!)


And, they are also offering a free lesson plan for teaching elementary school students about the crisis and how to help!
(I will DEFINITELY be adding this to my homeschool lesson plans for tomorrow!!)




HOPE FOR HAITI... TEACHABLE MOMENTS FOR PARENTS & CHILDREN


We’ve launched a project so your kids can show their compassion for affected families. Simply send handmade cards and letters to Volunteer USA Foundation…pictures inspired by the heart “are worth a thousand words.” We'll make sure we get your thoughtful messages get to the people of Haiti through outreach at hospitals, shelters, children and family organizations, schools and non-profit groups.

We’ll also be offering elementary schools a free lesson plan to help teach students that while disasters do occur, families and communities can do their best to prepare and recover. The example in Haiti is a reminder that we must educate our children about the value of disaster planning, so our families are as safe and secure as possible. You can find more information about our disaster recovery efforts at National Disaster Recovery Fund.

Please send cards of hope and compassion to: Volunteer USA Foundation – Cards of Care for Haiti, 5970 SW 1st Lane, Ocala, FL 34474

Happy helping everyone!!!

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

TOMS shoes

Do you need a new pair of kicks?

Do your kids need new slip-on shoes?

Well, for those of you who may have missed the super cool television advertisements in the States a couple of months back, you can buy new shoes and send a new pair of shoes to a child in need IN HAITI today!!

The website is www.tomsshoes.com. Please read the post below from their website today:

1/19/2010
TOMS customers have made it possible for TOMS to make a donation to
Partners In Health in support of immediate response to the devastating earthquake in Haiti. In addition to this support, we are committed to having a positive impact on the people of Haiti by doing what we do best - by February, TOMS will have given 30,000 pairs of shoes to children in Haiti and more are on the way!
Follow
@PIH_org on Twitter for the most recent updates on their progress and how to help.

(Yes, we have 4 pair in our house (and 2 t's and 1 hoodie)... so comfy... so stylish... so for a good cause... Hint: They always send a new pair of shoes "one for one" to a kid in need when you buy a pair of shoes or a t-shirt or a hoodie, etc.)

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Haiti 2010

It's been 7 days since Haiti was rocked, and so many people were devastated.

Every day I worry.
Every day I pray.
And, I watch the news.

Shocking.
Unbelievable.
Sickeningly tragic.

And I can't help but think: "What can I do?"
I feel so helpless.

Praying doesn't seem like enough when we are His hands and feet.
Worrying helps nothing.
Watching the news only makes my worry grow.

Through Compassion, I have sponsored Sofia Jean for the past 12 years. She lives in Haiti, and she goes to school near Port-au-Prince. We have written to each other for the past 12 years, and she has pictures of me, my husband and our two beautiful boys. We pray for her everyday. But where is she tonight? Is she safe? Is she well-fed? Does she know she is loved?

This Christmas we added Lowentz to our Compassion family, but did he get the message? We sent him a letter welcoming him into our lives with a picture, but did he receive it? Is he safe tonight? Is he hungry? Is he safe with his parents like my little boy, snug in his bed?

We have sent money, of course, through Compassion, which we trust to get help to the children and their families, but it seems like it's not enough.

What can we do?
How can we help?
What can we say to our own children to help them understand how we are lending a helping hand?

My crazy heart tells me to somehow get those babies out of there...to bring them home with me... how many extra bedrooms do we have???
But, wisdom tells me that those children need heaps more than I can give them by bringing them to a strange land away from their familiar surroundings. (And, how could I do that anyway?)

So, pray and give money, yes. But what else can we do?

What would we want others to do for us if we were in Haiti right now???????

Monday, January 18, 2010

Book 2: Chi is Lonely

Please enjoy Kids Encountering Social Injustice: Chi is Lonely.


Kids Encountering Social Injustice
BOOK 2:
Chi
Is Lonely




Chi loved his family-
and he especially loved working long days in the family orchard
alongside every cousin, sister, brother, man, woman, and child in his family.
Today had been an especially wonderful one,
it being his birthday and all,
but Chi had an idea.







Chi wanted to meet someone new, and he knew just the way to do it.
He rushed to the Machine,
opened it,
and leaped inside.









Instantly, he found himself deep in a thick, equatorial jungle.








Since Chi was an especially hard-worker,
he made his way to the edge of the jungle in no time,
and suddenly encountered a spectacular white-sand,
crystal clear-water beach.










On the beach were three wandering dark-skinned guys.









Striking up a conversation took some work,
but Chi soon discovered that these guys had lost both parents
to sickness and now had no family, no home, and no food.











Certainly he had met more than just someone new.







So Chi wondered,
“What are they going to do?”








Before long, Chi had worked with the guys
to build a small hut just off the shore and
collect some bananas and mangoes to eat,
and when the work was finished, Chi thought,
“No kid should have to live without parents.”






Instantly, Chi found himself back at home,
the Machine lifeless beside him.
But the thought had not left him.
“No kid should have to live without parents,”
but some kids do every single day
because there is a sickness stealing their parents away.





So Chi decided,
“Someone should stop the sickness from stealing kids’ parents.”








And then he realized,
“I can be that someone!”









Fact Sheet about AIDS orphans in Africa:

Aids kills some 6,000 people each day in Africa -
more than wars, famines and floods.
Millions of children are orphans, many more live with HIV or Aids.

Please see these websites about the fantastic people serving Africa's orphans:
(and please post comments with more!)
www.missionsinafrica.com
globalorphanrelief.org
www.watoto.com
shoesforafrica.com
invisiblechildren.com
www.compassion.com
www.worldvision.org

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Who has the time?

At a time when all of us (who are privileged enough to have access to blogs) are tackling work, spouse, kids, education, the toilets, the cupboards, exercise, prayer, dinner, the checkbook, car maintenance, bill payments, taxes, friends, church, common courtesy, and so much more, all in one day for that matter, how do we find the brain space and the time to talk to our kids about Social Justice?

Well, maybe we MULTI-TASK?

Maybe we PRIORITIZE?

Maybe we all get new clocks that have a few extra hours between 5 and 8pm?

Or, maybe... just maybe, there could be a new way to talk to our kids about Social Justice.

When I teach high school students, middle school students, elementary school students, church classes and my own homeschool students about the social injustices that are going on around the world and what we can do about them, I often find myself in this dilemma: What if these types of things are too traumatic for them to hear about? What if they are so saddened by the plight of others that it affects their daily lives?

I don't think 14-year-old Austin Gutwein was too traumatized when he learned about AIDS orphans in Africa at the green age of 12. He has raised over $450,000 for them with his own fundraiser called Hoops of Hope. (hoopsofhope.org) And I don't think our kids will be traumatized either, if we teach them the right way...

I actually don't think we can afford to raise another socially-unaware generation.

I was fully 20 years old before I knew that poverty was a cycle. (Up until my first Social Change class in Undergraduate study, I thought that people who were poor were just lazy and shy.) I don't want my kids to find themselves in college with the same old mindsets.

The Word calls the people of God "more than conquerors" in Christ (Romans 8:37), but how can we be more than conquerors if we do not attack our real enemies? And how can we attack them if we don't know what they are?

Instead of raising a generation that discovers a smaller mobile phone that can do cooler tricks, let's raise a generation that discovers how to connect the very rich people of the world with the very poor people of the world in a respectful way that benefits all.

Let's raise a generation that sees the value of policy change in the leadership of every nation, and knows that they are the conquerors who have the power to make that change.

Let's leave a life where we have to spend 60 minutes a day on the treadmill to work off all of the junk food we ate yesterday for a life that is so focused on serving others that health naturally follows. (This one may be just for me, but I had to indulge my own conscience.)

Let's do it today!

Every child is different, and every family is different. My efforts would be insufficient to attempt to tell anyone how to go about teaching his or her own child about anything. But, I will put it out there how I am doing it so that all of you others might be inspired to do it your way!

Today I will find one thing to talk to my kids (ages 4 and 2) about that will inform them and empower them. Perhaps it will be to pray for our Compassion sponsored children in Haiti and their friends and families? Perhaps it will be to look at pictures on the internet of child soldiers in Uganda? Perhaps it will be to view the Tom's shoes website and talk about a kid receiving his or her first pair of shoes at age 10. Or, perhaps it will be something NEW...

(Perhaps one day there will be numerous kids' books and tweens' books and teens' books about Social Justice!... One is in my last post, and 12 more are coming soon!)

There are so many people on the planet who are making positive change, and our children deserve to be empowered to join the ranks among them.

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Book 1: Asher is Thirsty









Kids Encountering Social Injustice

BOOK 1:


Asher

Is Thirsty





Asher loved to go places- anywhere

really – the park, the pool, over to a friend’s house.

He was up for anything; especially today, because today was special.

Today was Asher’s birthday, and

he had an idea.







Asher wanted to meet someone new, and he knew just the way to do it.

He rushed to the Machine,

opened it,

and leaped inside.






In no time he found himself high among

the limbs of an acacia tree, and he was HOT,

hotter than hot.




As he looked across the field, he spotted a soccer game going on. So, he hurried down from the tree and ran over to the group of kids on the dirt field.



Since Asher had the confidence of a true adventurer, he quickly introduced himself and asked if he could join the game.




After playing for hours in the scorching African sun, Asher and his new companions were thirsty. So, they rushed into the city in search of something to drink.







Before long, he realized that none of his new friends had money to buy a drink, and not one had a nice

home with water from the sink and ice in the freezer.

Certainly he had met more than just someone new.

And Asher wondered,

“What is this strange feeling?”









The boys searched and searched for something to drink,

and when they could find nothing else,

they found a tiny stream in a back alley.

In an act of desperate thirst, the boys drank.






And Asher thought,

“No one should have to drink from a street alley.”







Instantly, Asher found himself back at home,

the Machine lifeless beside him.

But the thought had not left him.








“No one should have to drink from a street alley.”




But some kids do, every single day, because there are no fresh water wells where they live!

So Asher decided,

“Someone should dig fresh water wells in every town so every kid can drink clean, healthy water.”











And then he realized,

“I can be that someone!”











Fact Sheet about the world’s Water Crisis:

In most developed nations, we take access to safe water for granted. But this wasn’t always the case. A little more than 100 years ago, New York, London and Paris were centers of infectious disease. Child death rates were as high then as they are now in much of Sub-Saharan Africa. It was sweeping reforms in water and sanitation that enabled human progress to leap forward. It should come as no surprise that in 2007, a poll by the British Medical Journal found that clean water and sanitation comprised the most important medical advancement since 1840.

The health and economic impacts of today’s global water crisis are staggering.

  • More than 3.5 million people die each year from water-related disease; 84 percent are children. Nearly all deaths, 98 percent, occur in the developing world.
  • Lack of access to clean water and sanitation kills children at a rate equivalent of a jumbo jet crashing every four hours.
  • Lack of sanitation is the world’s biggest cause of infection.
  • Millions of women and children spend several hours each day collecting water from distant, often polluted sources. This is time not spent working at an income-generating job, caring for family members, or attending school.
  • 443 million school days are lost each year due to water-related illness.

(source: water.org)

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Our kids deserve it!

Blog Day #1
1.13.2010
Today I have officially decided that my kids' social justice literature work will no longer sit on my hard-drive collecting dust. Today I have officially decided to put it out there for other parents who think our kids actually deserve to learn about Social Justice in a way that inspires them to be the change that everyone wants to see on the planet - BEFORE they get to college. Rather than sit at home pining for a publisher to knock on my door, I decided to share what was given to me so that other parents can talk to their kids about what we all can and will do about social injustice on the planet.

This morning I spoke to a group of 100 students about how my life changed in 2007. Having been a believer in Christ since age 8, it was only at age 24 that I realized that being a follower of Christ is NOT ACTUALLY ABOUT ME AT ALL. And it only took traveling 9,333 miles abroad to Hillsong Church in Sydney, Australia to teach me that.

To make things practical, I shared how we can flesh out Isaiah 58 today: breaking the chains of injustice, getting rid of exploitation, freeing the oppressed, canceling debts, sharing food with the hungry, inviting the homeless into our homes, putting clothes on the shivering ill-clad, and being available to our families.

And today, I decided to do my part.

Please see Kids' Adventures in Social Justice Book 1: Asher is Thirsty.